Balance

There is so much more to Grace than can be seen in my last post. She has faced challenges (many of her own making) that would cripple most of us. She is strong and complex and lovely. I am compelled to balance the last "overview" of her addiction with more important facts about my beautiful daughter.

The years I have described were filled with so much more than the pain and fear I've shared. There were many moments of joy and laughter ~ times of peace and rest. I loved holding my baby, watching her grow. There is much to be proud of, even during the most challenging times.

Grace possesses great strength. She has faced her challenges and is growing from them. She will do whatever it takes to meet a goal if it is important enough for her. Regaining custody of Melody is her current goal and she is putting that strength to good use.

Grace is an incredible mother. I never would have imagined she would step into this role with so much confidence and ability. From the moment she found out she was pregnant, she was profoundly changed. She instinctively knows how to mother; how to nurture and play and discipline in balance.

Grace can make me laugh like no other. I've come close to driving off the road with Grace-induced giggles more than once. She can take something boring and bring it to life with her jokes and teasing.

Grace is so beautiful. Her long hair and expressive eyes draw many a glance from the opposite sex. But it's more than skin deep. She holds herself with grace and poise when her confidence is high.

Grace is determined and a loyal friend.  She has grit and spunk and talent. She is smart. She always wins in Slug Bug. She will fight to the end for a friend. She loves deeply. My daughter inspires me, even in the middle of our struggle. I love hanging out with her. I love her smile.

I think above all Grace is honest. She usually tells it like it is. She doesn't try to hide who she is. Someone at church once told her when she was about 14 that God saw and was pleased with her honest heart. I have to agree with Him.

So there is balance - just a brief glimpse into the 'rest of the story'.